Solutions to all your problems.

“You will miss it” is what my graduate seniors always mentioned. I didn’t believe it then, but I can never deny it now because school life was fun, it is sometimes hard to believe that it is over. Every time, there is a problem in life, I automatically start thinking about how life was in school. It was easier than we thought during those times, we all just wanted to go to college and enjoy like our seniors. But it is the place where I learned the most.

Every time I called my mom with a problem that I was facing at school, she would simply tell me “I know you are strong, you can deal with it, moreover, this isn’t a real problem, there is a lot that you will have to face outside the school” I am not sure if that statement helped to face my problems in school or made me scared about the worst that was going to cross my way after I graduated.

So tired of all problems !!!

Guess what, by the time I reached high school, I was dealing pretty well with those problems and they turned out to be interestingly unreal to me. Like who cares? Although here is what I realized, a problem that cannot be solved becomes a situation that we have to accept it directly or maybe find an alternative to accept it. This might sound unrealistic or demotivating but hear me out.

Let us take an example of it. A problem that cannot be solved can be as such, one of my friends disrespects me and talks bad about me behind my back, simply known as bitching. This is something nobody can stop, people with no work tend to spend their time this way. My alternative to accepting this problem would be, being happy about the amount of fame he/she is bringing for me. For those who probably didn't know me might follow my Instagram page now XD. When they actually meet you, they can always see the good you.

Now let’s take a 2nd scenario, a problem that can be solved. Well, it shouldn’t really bring the tension high because it will eventually vanish, we just have to be strong and courageous during the process. Forget about what people will think, just do what you think is right. Sun will rise again the next morning my friends.

My dear teenager and adult friends, calm down and take it easy. You have a long way to go. Focus on your priorities, that will help you grow better in life not what is pulling you down. There is no time for that.

Don’t worry about connections, you will make it throughout your journey. Don’t worry about failures, they are already teaching you what not to follow, don’t worry about marks, focus on knowledge, don’t worry about rules, just keep your morals high.

Do you know What I do sometimes to calm down? I sit in peace and even if that does not work, I call my dad. He doesn’t give me the solution; he repeats the same thing my mom would. However, when I start telling him my problem, I start to realize that it is not big of a deal. I think I can do it. I can probably deal with it. I know, it’s there in me. Speak out about the problem, hear by yourself and ask, is it really that big enough for you not to be able to solve? you know you are strong.

All of this does not sound too accurate in theory but trust me, it will work for most of it. Try it out once? No harm.

Ps: I just wanted to remind you guys; you already know it all, just hear yourself once.